OK, I am typing this while on the phone with Strangeways - these are joint comments.
Pinsanity - bringing up a members personal life is a disgrace. You possibly won't read this as you will be on holidays for a little while to consider your actions.
Caveoftreasures - retaliating to comments and attempting to moderate threads is not appropriate, nor are you responses which are also insulting. However, given the comments that sparked them, a warning only this time. In future, report posts without retaliating.
