Ok some multi meter fun...
I tested the first switch (closest to coil) on the s relay which is on the side that has only 3 switches and it is normally open. However when i test i get a reading that suggests that there is continuity. When i close the switch the result is the same. WTF???
Forgot to mention that this switch is bridged to the one next to it which is also normally open so i still would expect no continuity
