i hold the iron in one hand and the wire in my other hand between my thumb and finger next to my thumb, then i hold the solder in between my longest & ring finger in the same hand as the wire. it takes a bit of practice but after years of soldering it's easy for me. ![Cheesy :D](http://www.aussiepinball.com.au/Smileys/classic/cheesy.gif)
Sounds like using chop sticks to eat Chinese!!