Sorry I missed your call earlier - should have left your number - I thought it was my outlaws calling!
Relay O is energized with the ball set up to launch - as soon as the game scores - it drops O out, so when the ball drains with O de-energized it increases the ball count.
If the ball drains without scoring (and O is still on) - Q relay disables the flippers and re-enables ball launch with the right button.
O is definitely off when the game is over (the only time it's energized, is waiting for ball launch)
Tilt drops the O relay out also...
Hope that is sort of what you were after?
Shane.
EDIT: Your "tilt" now sounds identical to mine - so I think it must be right?