Take the paint and primer back for a refund dude! Dont chance it.
Then go to SA paint supplies.
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Sorry to hear you are having problems. Just ensure that BEFORE you re apply the primer (from the new supplier), sand the cabinet with 180 Grit. You may have sanded using 800 Grit in anticipation for the topcoat. You need to take a step back before going forward. It is frustrating, but you are learning some valuable experience.