No Gavin.
There are 3 or 4 bullies who think it is OK to personally attack other members.

As soon as I defend myself, the bullies get all nasty because God forbid they have someone stand up to them.

See, you post is a classic example.
You are not talking about pinball, you are talking about another member and making personality comments.
So u have just given a classic example of the problem.

Keep your personal opinions about other members to yourself and there won't be a problem.
You talk down to me like you are on a high horse. I don't want your personal opinion.
It's a pinball site not lifeline. If you want to act like a counsellor , join lifeline and when it comes to me, simply keep your mouth closed and there won't be a problem.

What are u contributing Gavin ? You just keep the cycle going by making personal comments like u have God syndrome. Talk about pinball, not people.
The 4 idiots on here all do the same thing. They meaningless start arguments and then when you defend yourself from the character assassinations, they blame the person who defends himself. Typical bully behaviour.
And when they get told to keep their opinions to themselves, people like u join in with the pack mentality.
Just talk pinball. It's not a dating site so keep away from talking about personalities.
It really is simple. I don't take orders from you Gavin or the other three who get off on putting other people down.
I think people who do this on websites are cowardly cause they would never do it face to face.
Stick to pinball for the 100th time.

And by the way, all the other people who used to get put down by the bullies just left.
I don't run from bullies, I stand my ground.

Stick to pinball Gav !