Ok,I think I got all that,i can force the action but it doesn`t spring back..

Here's what I think is going on ;

The AX coil pulls in and a physical action holds the contacts in position. It simulates normal playing conditions during a ball.  Peach - You are HOLDING this relay "in" to start the first ball ? Does the first ball eject into the ball trough ? Can you score points ?

These contacts will be in the "closed" position UNTIL the ball drains (Ball return relay will energize) the AX Reset, opening all the contacts.

In other words - it should not "Spring back" until the AX Reset coil energizes. You can simulate with the unit in your hand (game off).