Sorry to hear about your misfortune.
I went through a divorce back in 1993, there was 1 child involved.
fortunatly i met a wonderful woman after the seperation.
my first wife left me but i divorced her (she was so darn lazy I had to divorce her)
I remarried again and i am still married to my second wife with 3 great kids (all 3 of them are mine)
Back then there was no internet and before i met my second wife it was very lonely.

I hope you can sort something out with your current wife or move on and find someone new.
until then keep your hobbie alive and try and stay positive.

You probably feel like a fish out of water at the moment and thats understandable.

When you get your own place make sure you jump on here when you can.

All the best..
Beaky (Andrew)