I used to be a cold hearted son of a bitch, then I became a Dad and things changed big time.  It feels like any pain or suffering your kid endures, you feel two fold.  Great news Mark about your little girl and hopefully it all sorts itself out without any intervention.  Give her a kiss and a cuddle from all of us and buy the family a special pressie.........I know this guy in Bayswater that sells NIB pinball machines, you should grab one. 

Im in the same boat im still a cold hearted bastard but when it comes to kids im definately not cold hearted anymore