Us oldie probably intimidate the new guys
Some guy who has two old sys 11, and thinks he is a legend ( which he is)
But then cones on the forum and see us chatting about LE sterns (which are unaffordable to most) or our collections of 20+ games (who has THAT much space?) And thus the new guy feels that he cannot contribute
IMHO even if you have only one game, that puts you ahead of the general populace who wishes they has one game!