hey, im waiting for a photo or something that will help me with how the M relay is supposed to look... I would have hassled earlier but i think i've made myself enough of a pain to date 

As per the pics above, the M relay seems to be where my problem lies as i have checked the score reel switches against what you told me they should be... The M relay needs to be nailed and then all thats left mechanically is the flipper rebuilds (got 4 rebuild kits).